When do you blow out the unity candle? Do you leave the candles burning, or blow them out when it’s time to move on to the rest of the wedding ceremony? It depends! No one wants to look silly on their wedding day, so we get this question a lot. In this case, a bride or groom’s mother or father lights the candle to symbolize their love and support for the marriage, and may be asked to hold the tapers again after the unity candle is lit. Sometimes, the taper candles are lit by a parent or elder, and then passed to the couple to light the unity candle. + Watch all AMM wedding ceremony script videos on YouTubeĪfter lighting the unity candle, the couple will set their lit tapers in candle holders, or pass them to a wedding attendant to hold until the ceremony is over. See the short video below for a simple demonstration. They light the candle together when instructed by the wedding officiant, using two taper candles – one for each partner. The unity candle is lit by the couple during the ceremony.

Read about unity candles in Greek Orthodox & Christian ceremonies here: Eastern Orthodox Wedding Ceremony Traditions & Symbolism.In pagan weddings, unity candles are lit on the solstice to symbolize a return to longer days and the promise of a bountiful future, or as part of a candle magic ritual. In Catholic and other Christian weddings, the candle’s flame sometimes represents the light of God that’s carried within each partner, joined together in the holy covenant of marriage.

But because this tradition is so old and shows up in many different cultures and religions, it can mean different things to different people. Most often, a unity candle ceremony symbolizes two unique lives merging together into one bright and happy marriage – represented by two small taper candles used to light one larger ‘unity’ candle.

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This is more common when a unity candle ceremony is added to a handfasting ceremony (to keep the cord or ribbon from catching fire). But this isn’t set in stone – some couples prefer to light the candle before the vows. Usually, the unity candle is lit right after the exchange of vows and rings. Is the unity candle lit before or after the vows exchange?Īh yes, one of the most common questions ever when it comes to unity ceremonies! When is the unity candle lit? Is it before or after the vows and rings? If you’re getting married and want to include this ritual, or just have a couple questions about it, keep reading!ġ.

It covers everything you’ll need to know in detail to help you officiate with confidence, and even includes a sample ceremony script. If you’re officiating a wedding with a unity candle ceremony for the first time, we recommend this article: You’ve got questions about the unity candle ceremony, and we’ve got answers! But first… FAQs About the Unity Candle Ceremony, Including When, How, Who, Where, and Why!.

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